Ways to Comfort a Crying Baby when in a Hotel

baby cryingWhen you travel with your infant and checks in a hotel, what are the problems that you usually encounter? When you hear the baby cry, what is your initial reaction? Do you turn and see what he wants or do you continue doing what you are doing thinking you would spoil him? Babies usually react to a change in environment. They sometimes have difficulty adjusting from home to a new place, like a hotel or cottage.

All babies cry sometimes. This is their only way to signal that they are hungry, uncomfortable, lonely or unhappy for some other reason. Since few sounds are as distressing as a baby’s cry, parents usually rush to feed or pick up a crying infant, especially when they are traveling or checked into a hotel. A hotel vacation may not work well for babies that they may seem fussier. As babies quiet down and either fall asleep or gaze about in alert contentment, they may show that their problem has been solved.

At other times, though, communication is not so clear, and the caregiver or the baby sitter cannot figure out what the baby wants. The baby keeps on crying and this can be frustrating for you and other hotel guests that are checked in near your room. Though most hotels will have sound proof walls, it would be distressing to have to stay in a hotel while the baby cries all night. It is worth trying to find ways to help.

By the end of the first year, babies who receive tender, soothing care cry less and communicate more in other ways, while the babies of punitive or ignoring baby sitters or parents cry more.

Parents do not have to be afraid of spoiling their babies by going to them when they cry. Infants cannot be spoiled by being picked up and held. The holding itself may be what they are crying for, especially when they are in a different environment. Other than illness, healthy babies cry when they are with strangers and strange environment. Some of the measures below often prove helpful:

  1. Hold the baby, maybe laying the baby on his stomach on your chest, to feel your heart beat and breathing. Or sit with the baby in a comfortable rocking chair. If there is no rocking chair that the hotel management can provide, you can prop up the pillows or stand and rock the baby side by side.
  2. Put the baby in a carrier next to your chest and walk around the hotel grounds. The different lights will catch his attention and will stop him from crying. Sometimes, hotel decorations are enough visual stimuli for babies to get distracted from crying.
  3. Make the baby warmer or cooler depending on his need. Put on additional clothing when the temperature is cold or take off clothing when the temperature is humid. If you are inside your hotel room, change the room temperature to suit the baby’s need. If this is not possible, call for room service or inquire on how the room temperature can be changed for baby’s comfort.
  4. Put on some of the nice clothes he received and let him see the colorful prints on them. Bring out some baby toys and play with him for a while. If the baby can crawl, let him crawl on the carpeted part of the hotel room. However, make sure that you oversee where he goes to avoid accidents or injuries.
  5. Ask the hotel service if you can change to a room that has baby furniture and equipment that you can use. If not, check into a hotel room that has lesser chances for the child to bump into and hurting himself.
  6. If you are upset, ask someone else to hold the baby. Infants sometimes respond to their parents’ or care giver’s mood.
  7. Wrap the baby snugly in a small blanket. Some infants feel more secure when firmly swaddled from neck to toes with arms held close to the sides.
  8. Give the baby a massage or a warm bath.
  9. Sing or talk to the baby or provide a continuous rhythmic sound, like music from the radio, a simulated heart beat or background noise from a whirring fan or toys.
  10. Take the baby out of the hotel room – for a ride in a stroller or car seat – at any hour of the day or night. If the weather is not good, you can try walking around the hotel lobby to get the baby distracted by the people coming in and out of the hotel.
  11. If someone other than a parent is taking care of the baby, it sometimes helps if the care giver or baby sitter puts on a robe or a sweater that the mother has recently worn, so that the baby can sense the familiar smell.

Babies behave uniquely right from birth. It is up to the people surrounding him to determine what irritates him, what he most like in order to achieve comfort and ease both for parents or caregiver during travel and hotel accommodations.

Beautiful Gardens in Hotels around the World

Bodysgallen Hall and SpaDo you enjoy staying at hotels as much as traveling? Aside from the great accommodations, the hotel offers great outdoors. Some of the best hotels maintain a beautiful garden that is a sight to behold. Here are those hotels that offer great accommodation experience as well as beautiful gardens.

Bodysgallen Hall and Spa.  This hotel is located in Conwy county borough, north Wales. It is composed of 200 acres of land and features both formal and wild landscaping. This great accommodation was formerly a 17th century tower house during the Middle Ages. It served to support the defense of the nearby Conwy Castle. The garden was originally designed by the son of the estate’s primary owner, Hugh Wynn. The garden’s design is of Dutch-themed landscape that consisted of sunken and high walled gardens. This style was the trend during the early 17th century in Scotland, England and Wales. The garden now consists of a low growing topiary maze and owned by the National Trust since 2008.

Hotel Bel-Air. This hotel belongs to the Dorchester Collection of hotels that is operated and owned by the Brunei Investment Agency. The hotel was originally built as an office space and riding stables. It was then bought by Texan entrepreneur, Joseph Drown with his partner Ted Chanock in 1946. The landscape designers added a Swan Lake as instructed by Drown, where guests have to cross it via a footbridge to get to the hotel. Staying at this hotel is like staying in an oasis because of its continuously blooming flowers, fig, palm and fiscus.

Villa d’Este. One of thebest examplesof Italian Renaissance gardens, this hotel is located in Tivoli, near Rome, Italy. The technique of hydraulic engineering system of this hotel is what makes it a fine work of art with its sequence of fountains. The garden features about 500 jets in the form of fountains, pools and water troughs. Traversing the stairs of the hotel will offer guests a view of the elaborate fountain systems where at some point the guests can walk behind the water cascade.

Mirbeau Inn and Spa. The inn and spa is located in Massachusetts, USA.  It belongs to a group of residential and commercial development in the Pine Hills region of Plymouth. The location itself features a diverse array of home architecture – cottage homes, townhomes and luxury apartment rentals. Massage enthusiasts will be drawn to the peaceful ambience of the inn with its Monet-inspired pong gardens surrounding the inn.

Powerscourt House and Gardens. A large country estate located in Ireland that is noted for its house and 47 acres of landscaped gardens. The house was originally a 13th century castle, modified by Richard Cassels, a German architect in the 18th century. The estate is a popular tourist attraction with its golf course, Autograph collection hotel, Japanese garden and the oldest woolen mill and restaurant, the Avoca Handweavers restaurant. The estate is presently owned by Slazenger family, owners and founders of Slazenger sporting goods.

These hotels and estate gardens are just some of the many hotels that offer historical landscaped gardens all over the world.

Benefits of Staying in a Hotel

hotel roomTo travel is one of the most pleasurable ways to learn and meet people. It is also one of the best means to integrate leisure with work. One of the most challenging parts of the travel is looking for a place to stay. True, you can save more money when you opt to stay at a friend or relative’s house. However, there are quite a few advantages of staying in a hotel than in a relative’s place as follows:

Independence. When you stay at a friend or a relative’s house, you need to express your gratitude and courtesy for the accommodation extended to you by complimenting them on their cooking as well as spending time with them. This may not be the ideal option for you if you are the type of person who likes to sleep all day or do anything that you would virtually desire. You may want to see places and go out with friends but since you are staying at their place, it is courtesy to be at home before dinner starts. Moreover, you should be satisfied with the type of accommodation they give you, whether it’s a great bed or otherwise.

Security. Staying in a hotel means you don’t have to worry about anyone slipping into your room while you are sleeping or away to visit a nice museum in town. Hotels are usually equipped with real time monitor cameras that it would be easy to spot anyone who may come into your room without official business.

Hotel amenities. Hotels do not just offer a bed and breakfast sort of package. They also have indoor pools, internet connection, dry cleaning and other services that you may need in order to be comfortable. If you feel like you don’t want to spend the day visiting old museums and historical places, you can always spend time relaxing by swimming or watching your favorite show right in the comforts of your own room.

More food choices. One of the perks of staying at a hotel is fine dining. You get to choose your own food from a wide array of choices. You don’t have to compliment or bear a great friend’s terrible cooking just to be courteous. Order away and enjoy a good meal.

Spectacular view from your bedroom window. Depending on the type of hotel and floor you stay, you get to enjoy a spectacular view both during day and night time. You can always roll down the shade with my local perfect fits of window blinds of hotels should the light be too much for you.

Strained relationships. Whether you are attending a wedding or a family reunion, you can avoid the awkward conversations with people you don’t like a lot. You can prevent heated discussions or the uncomfortable feeling of sleeping in one room with people you have had misunderstandings by opting to stay in a hotel.

Regardless of your reason for travel, it is always a joy to stay at your favorite hotel. You just have to spend time in browsing the web for the best deals and you’ll surely find something that will fit your budget.

Money-Saving Tips for Weddings

save moneyCan you imagine yourself saving money on your wedding? You would perhaps say that it is quite impossible, what with the many details of the wedding to spend on, right? Well, here is a couple of tips on how you can save money or get value for your money during your wedding preparations:

Rethink your wedding date. Wedding package promos are normal during peak season of marrying months. However, off season, you can get almost the same price for wedding packages you want with more people available to assist you since they won’t be busy with other wedding couples.

Start with your guest list. Though you would want everyone to attend your wedding, you might be inviting people who are not so close to you. If you think that there are a couple of names whom you think played a significant part in your life, then perhaps you could remove them from your wedding guest list. If your wedding is to schedule at night, then there may be no need for children to be present as it may be a formal event. It will save you a lot if there would be no children who will attend.

Hold the wedding ceremony and wedding reception in a hotel. This way, you will save the gas for traveling from the wedding ceremony venue to the wedding reception. You also don’t have to worry about providing transportation for guests who don’t have vehicles to go to the wedding reception. In addition, most wedding ceremony venues offer packages with catering and wedding reception venue in the price of one. It will also save you time in planning and ticking off things you need to accomplish in your wedding preparations.

Choose single page wedding invitations. When you have to send wedding invitations via post, you can save on the amount you pay by reducing the weight of the wedding invitation you have to send. Reducing the number of pages and limiting it to one page will substantially reduce the amount you have to pay for postage mailing.

Time your wedding date and venue with your travel plans. If you already have travel plans prior to the wedding plans, you can time the wedding date and venue near your destination area or country. You could hire a destination wedding photographerfor your wedding photos. This way, you save on money and you hit two birds with one stone – travel and wedding at the same time.

Hire a local wedding photographer. Even if you are going a different location for your wedding, you can still hire a wedding photographer from northamptonshire.Most of the times, these wedding photographers have packages that include their own travel expenses for destination wedding outside the locality.

The wedding is a significant part of an individual’s life. However, it is not such a major part that you have to spend your lifetime savings just to get married. Wedding marks the beginning of another chapter in a person’s life, which is starting a family. There should be an amount of foresight on the expected expenses of family life.

Hotel Living and Why I Do It

I am a long-term hotel-dweller. My job demands  that I stay in a certain place for 6 months or more. Before I travel to a certain city I find a hotel that suits my needs. Believe me, there are hotels that offer long term dwelling. it is like  a short term lease on an apartment, but not really. All right, what are the good things that come in hotel living? Many people think that hotels are too expensive because they compute the per night stay. I find it funny too, when they stay in a hotel and fail to enjoy the amenities for fear of being charged too much. It does not have to be that way!

So let me answer why first. It’s cheaper than signing a short term lease. Calculate a monthly stay as compared to living in an apartment where the contract stipulates at least a year’s stay. In hotel living, you can leave any time you want. Furthermore, being a consultant definitely comes with per diem expenses or simply expenses.  When a company hires you, this kind of expenses are understood by them and they are willing to pay up to 75% of your monthly expenses including accommodations. I make sure this is agreed with my hiring company before I settle in their city.

 Actually, many people are known to have stayed in hotels. This would erase that notion that hotels are merely for a few days stay. Do you know that those who have engaged in hotel living ranged from the wealthiest to the poorest. For example, artists of many kinds have formed this unique community in Chelsea Hotel and they call it the “The last Outpost of Bohemia”. Johnny Depp lived in Chateau Marmont for 4 years. Keanu Reeves lived at the Chateau Marmont (Los Angeles) for 14 years! And many more to mention. Of course, you can surmise, I gave these two as my examples because they’re my favorites. Might as well.

So what are the advantages? There are plenty. Besides being able to leave anytime, you can and may request for a room with a kitchen. Therefore, you can cook or microwave your meals – definitely cheaper! Hotels are located downtown, and most probably near your corporation so being stuck in traffic is avoided and walking to work can be beneficial. Many hotels also offer free coffee and breakfast. So there.

Plan!Don’t start living in a hotel unless you’ve made sure you can afford it. Hotel living is the same as leasing an apartment or a transient house but the thing is, hotel living gives you a perspective specially that you won’t stay for so long in that city.

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